Saturday, November 8, 2008

Nearly Christmas? You're kidding me...

Blimey. It's almost halfway through November already, and I haven't posted.

Where to start...?

The attempt to toilet-train Mapera overnight was a bad idea, so we are back in the pull-ups. Instead, she has a sticker chart for going to the toilet as soon as she wakes up in the morning, as she tends to need the toilet first thing. It's going OK in that she is going, but she is needing to be reminded quite often. She's about halfway through her chart, so I am hoping the 21 days to learn a new habit will work on my busy little girl.
Daytimes are sorted now, she's taking herself off to the loo quite happily and rarely has an accident.

Daycare is proving fantastic for her social development, she has 2 close friends and comes home full of stories and songs and games, which is delightful.

Also, I recall reading something where an atheist family were looking to start the secular equivalent of grace before meals, and it seems I've hit on a good one from Mapera's cross-religious daycare:

"for family, whanau, friends and food, we say ka pai and thank you"

Mapera has taken to saying this before meals, and I try and follow with a round of thank yous - each person has to say thank you to someone else for something. It's a nice way of reminding each other that we are appreciated too.

Life continues apace, and I am actually on track with most of my projects for the first time! I've finished knitting Mapera's toy duck which she loves. I am now making Kaitereo one to prevent arguments!
We're well on track with the decorating of the house, and we're in the process of looking for somewhere bigger and with more land, so watch this space!
I've also decided to send proper Christmas cards this year, as I had a stock of homemade cards in the cupboard.

Finally, I am attempting to write a secular version of the Marriage Course manual. I attended the course and felt that it's religious base was not very relevant to me, although the actual practical exercises and advice were extremely useful. I've emailed the course providers to ask their permission to do this, and if I get the OK, I'll be making it freely available online to anyone who wants it! It's a mammoth project though, with using quotes and poetry, I'll need to get copy write permission for a lot of it. I'm going to use my own experiences where I can too.

So, busy as usual!

2 comments:

littlehouse said...

Nice to have you back :)
The grace question was from me.. and I love the one from Mapera. We will try it for fit.

Great to catch up.

Louise said...

I thought it was you! It's a nice one, and very cute the way Mapera recites it. It makes me stop and thank people too, which is especially good for the soul after a difficult day :)